On rethinking 'speech' vs 'communication'


Hi Reader,

A few months ago I had the joy of being interviewed by a wonderful friend, connector and collaborator Laeticia Andrac from Understanding Zoe, on her podcast the Neurodivergent Pulse. We chatted about Rethinking Speech Goals: Communication That Truly Supports Autistic Kids and this week I'm sharing this episode on my podcast too!

While I'd love for you to head over and listen, I wanted to share a key idea with you here that we discussed.

I have a real distaste for the 'Speech' in the title 'Speech Therapist/Speech Pathologist' and the other variations of our job title. It misleads people to think that 'speech' and 'speaking' is the main thing we help with. In my mind, and in Neurodiversity Affirming practices, what we're really doing is supporting communication, connection and interaction.

Speech is not the goal, and pushing speech when it's not the best, preferred, or ok-in-that-moment way for a child to communicate can do more harm than good.

Prioritising 'speaking' over 'communicating' is a sure-fire way to shut-down, shame and relational rift.

We need to ensure that if somebody has a different preferred or comfortable way of communicating, we are supporting them to find their best way to communicate, in that moment, for that person.

We need to step away from prioritising the comfort or ease of other people around a child who may prefer speech or want the child not to 'act weirdly', where that mode of communication isn't right or comfortable with the child.

If this has sparked something for you, I hope you'll take a listen!


Listen to this fabulous episode of the Neurodivergent Pulse podcast, shared on the Exploring Neurodiversity Podcast now!

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Adina Levy

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